When Complaining Is Actually Self-Betrayal

When Complaining Is Actually Self-Theft For a long time, I didn’t think of myself as someone who complained. I always associated complaining with being negative or stuck—saying the same frustrations out loud, circling the same problems, staying in a heavy mindset. That didn’t feel like me. I try to be thoughtful. I reflect. I genuinely … Continue reading When Complaining Is Actually Self-Betrayal →

What makes a good leader?

This is a meaningful pivot—you don’t need definitions; you need permission, vision, and recognition of yourself. What you’re reading is less “explaining leadership” and more calling you forward. Below I assume you already understand leadership (Leadership is the ability to guide and influence others toward a common goal while taking responsibility for both people and … Continue reading What makes a good leader? →

What is your mission?

I used to think my mission needed to be neat. A sentence I could repeat. A box I could check. Something that made sense to everyone else before it made sense to me....but life doesn't move in straight lines, evidently neither did I. My mission pulses with this electric tension between freedom and depth. I … Continue reading What is your mission? →

What is something others do that sparks your admiration?

Alright let’s do this properly.This will be epic. Admiration, in the Seasons When Belief Is Thin Admiration is often misunderstood. I didn't really know what I believed in until I further sat with this question. We think it lives in highlight reels, in achievements, influence, and confidence worn like armor. But real admiration doesn’t come … Continue reading What is something others do that sparks your admiration? →

Most people don’t know you…

We interact and engage with people every day... but how many actually know you...Most people don’t really know me, not in the full sense.They might see the Realtor. The creative. The woman hosting events, building communities, or helping others rise. They might see the traveler, the one who somehow blends spirituality with business and still … Continue reading Most people don’t know you… →

What Have You Been Working On?

Myself... People ask this question all the time — “So, what have you been working on?”And I used to answer with achievements. Deals. Projects. Deadlines.Now, I pause before I answer. Because lately, what I’ve been working on isn’t something you can post about.It’s been… quieter. Deeper.Working on trusting timing. On not shrinking when things shift.On … Continue reading What Have You Been Working On? →

Principles I live by…

Finding myself has been work. Real, layered, uncomfortable work. The kind that asks you to look at your patterns, your people, your pain — and still keep walking. I share these principles not as someone who’s mastered them, but as someone who’s practicing them every day. They are my reminders, my recalibrations, my quiet way … Continue reading Principles I live by… →

What Would You Do if You Lost All Your Possessions?

This isn't just a random thought; I actually experienced this, but had I reflected on it beforehand... Maybe I would have been able to process loss differently.. When Hurricane Helene hit, I lost my home — and with it, nearly everything I owned.Furniture, clothes, keepsakes, the small comforts that made up “normal life” — all … Continue reading What Would You Do if You Lost All Your Possessions? →

Prompt: How would you feel without music?

Sometimes I wonder what my life would feel like without music. It’s almost impossible to imagine because music isn’t just something I listen to—it’s something I breathe with. Without music, I think the silence would feel heavier. My thoughts would echo louder, unsoftened, with no rhythm to carry them away. Moments that should swell with … Continue reading Prompt: How would you feel without music? →

The Journey Begins

Thanks for joining me! Good company in a journey makes the way seem shorter. — Izaak Walton